This is a quite good documentary - I was totally absorbed by it throughout its running time. It seems to go into some subjects in rather more nuance than we on the progressive left usually do. No, not all women are perfect, and yes, feminists sometimes don't do their homework about the events they protest about (or they apply their own logic to explain a situation they haven't looked properly into, but just react to on their own prejudiced premise). And yes, there is a problem with some men's issues that are not being addressed because society is still too toxically masculine to acknowledge such problems, and because the feminist agenda makes for more dramatic and outrageous news stories.
But, what is presented in this documentary, while somewhat shocking, is just not altogether true. The statistics about domestic violence are wildly disputed by various researchers - all you have to do is read up on it on Wikipedia! Although some male violence happens in disproportionately forceful (sometimes lethal) response to female-initiated violence, the vast majority of victims worldwide are certainly women, while the vast majority of perpetrators are men. Some statistics muddle the issue by not giving a proper picture of different social groups and different cultures, and by and large it is still women who are overwhelmingly the victims. So, as others have said in these user comments, trying to equate men's rights with women's rights, and how such rights are violated, is just not in the same ballpark at all, and just two completely different subjects.
One way of illustrating this is to reference Eleanor Roosevelt's interesting quote: "Small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events, and great minds discuss ideas." Personally, I have found this quote to be enormously true and helpful. The men's rights activists in this documentary are not motivated by social justice but by their own, unfortunate personal history. They've had some really bad luck, and yes, they deserve compassion and perhaps some degree of redress, BUT, they are talking about their own situations and not truly something systemic. Because of their personal experiences, they THINK that their problems are systemic, but that is not the case. They're just a few people who've had very bad luck. Their situation is not at all comparable to the issues involved in women's rights, which truly ARE systemic. The MRAs are small minds discussing people, while feminists in general are greater minds discussing ideas (and trying to do something about real injustices). Feminists are motivated by the great scopes of history, and by the universal plights of women across the world, who are still oppressed and silenced in so many ways. Women's rights is a real and global issue - men's "rights" really isn't. The MRAs, ultimately, are just jealous that women's rights are getting a lot of attention, and they seem to be blaming women for the lack of attention to these men's plight. The film portrays feminism as the side that won't meet the MRAs on common ground, but it's very much both. What the MRAs completely fail to grasp is that the cause of their problems are societal, and created entirely by the ruling elite. Instead of blaming women, or just comparing "men's right" with women's rights as if both were equally worthy, these men should resist their capitalist overlords. By choosing to focus on an alleged over-emphasis on women's rights, the MRAs are just being useful idiots to the people who created their problems. Which is the usual problem with ignorant Americans; they are so brainwashed against the left that they can't or won't blame the real and perpetual cause of their misfortune: the extreme right.
So when this director, in the course of making the film, moved from being a feminist to being, well, NOT a feminist, she moved in an anti-progressive direction. She moved from a rational, well-evidenced perspective to an emotional one based on the personal experiences of a very few ideologically and intellectually naive men. Sure, they have some interesting and thought-provoking points, also the Honey Badgers about Boko Haram (which are a bunch of murderers, but actually often spare women, putting the lie to the "misogynist" way the narrative was spun by the media). And from the way things are presented in the documentary, the director's change of heart is understandable. But it is way out of proportion with reality and hence with reality-oriented morals, and it is ignorant and misguided, based on a few emotional exceptions to the real and extant rule. Don't be fooled, folks.
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