Some people are visual. Others are auditory. Elliot's voice hooked me & Ashley's story line resonates with me & so many I know. Justin & Ashlynn are the reason I'm watching. I cringe at 50 Shades comparisons, as there are so many better & more realistic BDSM books out there! Is "Submission" lighter on the spectrum? So far, yes, as there is only so much the show can do in half an hour (should be an hour) and not scare off non-lifestyle folks or be straight up porn. I'm all for anything that brings BDSM to the masses! I hope as the show progresses, it will incorporate more teaching moments as too many people don't understand the protocols of what is going on. Some just want to watch kink to try it at home, which is fine (welcome to the dark side). But my pet peeve is naive comments that show the person really doesn't understand BDSM. For example: Dylan's collar disappeared after she was released. Some pets wear collars simply to wear collars (puppy play), but in a true D/s relationship, a collar represents: commitment, ownership, love, loyalty, acceptance & responsibility. Those not in the community just think it is jewelry or an accessory. It is akin to a wedding ring and more meaningful to some. A sub will feel naked without a collar, and her whole world shatters when uncollared. I felt it in the shower scene; even though I don't like Dylan's bratty role, my heart broke for her. I would have liked to see Elliot/Ashely address hard & soft limits along with a safe word, but at least they are keeping open communication. I liked the roommate's triad transition; unicorns, paramours, metamours & play parties often confuse folks so it is good to help folks open up and understand poly scenarios. I also hope the show highlights Switches/Domme's as they are highly underrepresented in my opinion. If safe, sane & consent is given,anything goes. Hard limits are to be respected, but always keep an open mind. You just might enjoy that obsidian desire that was once unspoken. Not your cup of tea, keep channel surfing. I'm looking forward to more tricks up Elliot's sleeve. (Seriously, suit porn is my weakness!)
Review of Submission
