So few movies nowadays are at all compelling or fulfilling. Those that actually tell a story of human relationships often get high praise when the content is so light, and the characters so uninteresting. No doubt some of that is, for most younger people in the West, war is now something you read about in school or online. And social strictures are fewer. For whatever reason, at the end of this movie you feel you've seen something rich and meaningful and rewarding. I know for women it's supposed to make an important statement. But I think women too can have enormous sympathy for a man who feels he has done everything right and yet it simply isn't enough. Ultimately, whether this film is truly about lesbian relationships is somewhat beside the point.